The Sacrament of Marriage

The Sacrament of Marriage is a covenant, which is more than a contract. Covenant always expresses a relationship between persons. The marriage covenant refers to the relationship between the husband and wife, a permanent union of persons capable of knowing and loving each other and God.

Requirements for this Sacrament

  1. Must be at least 18
  2. Not related to each other by blood (first cousin or closer).
  3. Both intend to enter a permanent, indissoluble marriage, and to be faithful to each other for life.
  4. Both intend to enter a marriage that is open to the procreation and raising of children.
  5. One of the two is a Catholic.
  6. Complete Marriage Preparation Class

Scriptures:

“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate.” (Matthew: 19:4-6)
An example of the Liturgy of this Sacrament

Frequently Asked Questions

What's the difference between a Nuptial Mass and a Nuptial Ceremony?

A Nuptial Mass includes the reception of Holy Communion and all of the steps that go along with that.

What is the Church's view on divorce?

The Catholic Church believes that marriages are for life.  However, our church realizes that there are circumstances beyond one’s control, which may lead to divorce.  As such we believe in the sanctity of marriage; and we believe that Jesus is merciful and those who have been divorced and/or remarried are offered the sacraments of the Church

Can we still get married in the Church if my partner is not Catholic?

If your partner is baptized Christian, then this is permitted.  However, if your partner is not baptized at all then a dispensation is required. Your partner must accept the obligation to persevere in the faith and to assure the baptism and Catholic education of their children. 

Is Confirmation necessary before marriage?

It is preferred, but it is not required.  It should be noted that there should be an intent to receive this sacrament shortly afterwards.

Why do we need to complete Marriage Preparation?
Marriage preparation can help couples enhance their strengths, clarify expectations, identify areas needing change, learn and practice communication and conflict resolution skills, and develop more emotional and sexual intimacy. With attention and effort, most couples can create a strong relationship that will safeguard them against the inevitable strains of modern life.